Before a girl is labeled “difficult,” something has already been missed. Behavior doesn’t come out of nowhere, it builds over time through overlooked moments, unmet needs, and environments that fail to support her. Understanding what happens before a girl “acts out” is the key to changing the outcome.

Understanding the difference between healthy, warning, and abusive relationship behaviors can protect teens from harm. This Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month, She United breaks down the Relationship Spectrum and explains what safe, respectful love should truly look like.